Love is a Seesaw game
Hello everyone, i am here to share another thought. In a relationship, both cannot be dominant at the same time. When one is angry, loving , emotional or high in any feelings then other plays a subtle role so as to balance things out. In my case I always wanted to be dominant or to put in other words I always wanted to do things my way. But my then partner also wanted to be the same. Whereas in my case I was very clear and transparent and never forced him to do anything he is not willing to. But he was very clever and disguised and always gets things done. The tool he used was my emotions. If he wants anything to get done , it will be done either by pleading or crying or self hurting etc ...just to make me do things that he wanted to and that I am not comfortable or willing to do so. He believes that all men want is sexual favours from women , so I should not have any male friends that he don't approve of . All that be believed was men are not so good but the one thing he forgot o